Modesty vs. Immodesty...Who's coming home to meet the parents?

Last week we heard from the young men but this week we're going to hear from the young women! Who would a woman prefer to introduce to her father? Would it be a respectable, debonair, classy man like Idris Elba? Or would it be someone like Lil Wayne who is disrespectful to women, raunchy and vulgar? Who???

I have to quote Bro. Jerard X again, "only an immodest woman likes an immodest man and vice versa." What you are/think is what you will attract. When you see an indecent man 99.99999% of the time he will be with an immodest woman. A real woman wants a man she can be proud to take home to meet her father. A man that she would be proud to have a son by. When you take a man to meet your parents you would expect him to dress appropriately.

Along with the word woman, man is also used too loosely. Being a man is so much more than just being gender specific. To be a man means that you're striving to uphold your manly duties. But what are these duties? A man strives to protect, provide and love his woman and family, he strives to set an example for young men to teach them to how to be a real man, his strength has the potential to inspire the masses. Although modesty isn't just about the way you dress it is important because that is the first thing people notice about you. Men, if you are trying to apply for a respectable job and you're wearing an extra large shirt and sagging your pants they will turn you away before you can even get to the door, but if you're wearing a nice shirt with business casual pants you would be taken more seriously. Of course, you don't have to wear a suit and tie 24/7 but just pull your pants up and wear a decent casual shirt. That, is modesty. 

Dress your mentality!

Men and women want someone who will match their fly both mentally and physically. It's a package deal. What decent, respectable woman who is striving to uphold her womanly duties wants someone like Lil Wayne!? None! Like I said earlier, it is not only the way you dress that defines modesty it is also your mindset. If you want better be better.

I encourage everyone both men and women to give their opinion on this topic and the previous topics. Just post a comment right below this article! Please keep your comments respectable and refrain from using any profanity. Thank you!