Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Do For Self: They Don't Really Care About Us!


The most historically black owned businesses were located on Black Wall Street. For those who don't know, Black Wall Street was located in Tulsa, Oklahoma and contained a total of 600 businesses, 21 churches, 21 restaurants, 30 grocery stores, 2 movie theaters, 6 private airplanes, a hospital, a bank, a post office, schools, libraries, law offices and a bus system . As written by Ebony Magazine, "Its destruction began the way much terrorism, violence and dispossession against African Americans did during that era. A young White woman accused a young Black man of attempted sexual assault, which gave local mobs and White men acting as police just cause to invade the unsuspecting community:"
                      During the night and day of the riot, deputized whites killed more than 300 African Americans. They looted and burned to the ground 40 square blocks of 1,265 African American homes, including hospitals, schools, and churches, and destroyed 150 businesses. White deputies and members of the National Guard arrested and detained 6,000 black Tulsans who were released only upon being vouched for by a white employer or other white citizen. Nine thousand African Americans were left homeless and lived in tents well into the winter of 1921. - Linda Christenson
Read more at EBONY http://www.ebony.com/black-history/the-destruction-of-black-wall-street-405#ixzz2jBggtIOE
1921 Tulsa Race Riot:Survivors & Descendants Recall


As it was then and still remains today, we (black people) are resented. We were and are being deprived of  true knowledge. Someone stated on twitter, "Amerikkka can't afford for Black people to learn their history [because] they might start realizing they aren't as free as they think." The mis-education of the black man and woman, in particular, is not an accident. When our ancestors were brought to America, the western people who brought them here realized they could never be enslaved with the knowledge they possessed. You cannot enslave a people or a nation that has knowledge. When we obtain any type of knowledge we have to make sure we don't just sit on it. We have an obligation not only to ourselves but to our communities to cultivate that knowledge for the good of our people. We have to help ourselves. You don't see the Chinese people begging for jobs, they build their own town instead- China town. You don't see Koreans begging for jobs, they create them- beauty supply stores, nail shops, Korea town, etc. You don't see white people begging for jobs, they're the ones running them! They take the education they receive and their experiences and bring it back to their communities. As a people, we (black people) are the main ones that go around looking and begging for handouts. We MUST do for self!

Each and every one of us has a "God given talent." That means God gave us our duties from birth and He expects us to fulfill them. Duty is a necessary variable when it comes to love. Without duty love is a fantasy and that is exactly where we are mentally, in a fantasy world. There isn't any or very little progress in the black community because love is not present. We don't have true love for ourselves therefore we have a lack of love for our own people. You may be thinking, "oh nuh uh, I love myself and my people!" Do you really? What have you done for yourself today? How have you improved your mental and physical condition? Do you still torture yourself by going to that 9 to 5 you hate so much? What have you established or plan to establish for your people?

I will end the article with this, knowledge is power and just like we exercise and eat healthy, we have to watch what we feed on mentally and exercise and strengthen our minds.

"He who sets the diameter of your knowledge determines the circumference of your activity."

I encourage everyone, both men and women, to give their opinion on this topic and the previous topics. Just post a comment right below this article! Please keep your comments respectable and refrain from using any profanity. Thank you!

Also, visit www.economicblueprint.org to start improving your future today!

Saturday, October 26, 2013

Kadeem Alexander talks about Consciousness in Modesty...



Kadeem Alexander is the owner of the Generation Flight clothing line. In the picture above Kadeem Alexander is wearing an official G-Flight jacket. To see more of G-Flight's clothing go to www.generationflight.net.

During Kadeem Alexander's interview I asked him the following questions, what type of mindset should you have to establish your own business? What is the difference between being your own boss and having a regular 9 to 5? What are some tips you can give others who want to start their own business? Here is his response...

"To go into business for yourself, one must be the type of person who is willing to accept challenges. If you’re a person who likes to take the easy route or one of those “I do my job and I go home” type of people, that doesn't like to be bothered with work after 5 o clock, then going into business for yourself might not be for you. Whatever project you decide to take on, you need to be fully passionate about. Your passion is ultimately what’s going to allow you to flourish more than any of your particular talents. When you love what you do, it shows in your work, and you will be successful."

G-flight website: www.generationflight.net
Business info : online store - GenerationFlight.net
IG: Gflight_Clothing
Email:
Gflight10@yahoo.com

Thank you Bro. Kadeem for taking time out of your day to share your experiences with us and allowing me to feature you on my blog! I pray Allah (God) continues to bless you in your endeavors!

Thursday, October 24, 2013

Akilah Muhammad talks about Fashion in Modesty...

                                           Akilah Muhammad, 20

Akilah Muhammad was born and raised in St. Louis, Missouri. Sis. Akilah is currently a junior in college with a major in pre-podiatry and aspires to become a world renowned podiatrist. Sis. Akilah also stated, "I love being a member of the NOI! [Nation of Islam]" I chose to interview Akilah Muhammad because of the way she makes modesty her own. As you can see her outfits are well put together, fashion forward and most importantly modest! Sis. Akilah is an excellent example of what modesty looks like.

During Sis. Akilah's interview I asked her the following questions, "What are your experiences in school and/or in your everyday life with being modest? How do you make modesty work for you and what are some tips you can give to others? Here is her answer...

"Modesty to me is just expressing your individuality without showing your body. Modesty is loving yourself enough to not show yourself. I love being able to put different prints and patterns together and making it something totally new and different. Modesty is an everyday struggle for some but once you get used to covering your body it becomes natural. Who said you can't be cute and modest? (smile)."

Thank you Sis. Akilah for taking time out of your day to share your experiences with us and allowing me to feature you on my blog! I pray Allah (God) continues to bless you in your endeavors!

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Modesty!? Ain't nobody got time for that!...Or do you?


Greetings everyone! Peace be unto you! Last week was the 18th anniversary of the Million Man March: Muhammad's Economic Program To End Poverty and Want in Tuskegee, Alabama! It was a life changing experience! The DVD from this past Sunday is not available just yet but if you go to www.finalcall.com you can purchase the DVD of The Holy Day of Atonement 2012 in Charlotte, NC. I promise you won't regret it!

Now, back to the subject at hand...modesty!

How effective is it when someone explains something but isn't giving any examples on how to apply it? So! This week I want to focus on showing you all what modesty looks like. Modesty does not have to consist of covering your whole body to the point where people can only see your eyes. Modesty can be up to date, fashionable, chic and classy! Modesty is high fashion!

Many women are concerned that if they cover themselves they lose their beauty, but that is far from the truth. True beauty lies in what is unseen. It may sound cliche but it's true. In this world, too much value is placed upon on the sexual attraction of a woman. If you're a woman you will always be attractive to a man, the problem is attracting the wrong type of attention. You should want a man to respect you. You should want a man to see the true essence of you when he looks at you not your breasts, thighs and legs. This is not KFC!

The same goes for men. Sagging your pants, wearing a muscle shirt and Jordan's does not mean you have "swag". It just looks like you have no class. You don't have to dress up all the time, there's a time and a place for everything but looking presentable is a must! Both men and women should present themselves in a way that they'll be respected. Women, if you want men to stop touching you inappropriately, dress and act like you do! Men, if you don't want people to see you as a "thug" then dress and act like it!

I encourage everyone, both men and women, to give their opinion on this topic and the previous topics. Just post a comment right below this article! Please keep your comments respectable and refrain from using any profanity. Thank you!

Saturday, October 12, 2013

Masaniai Muhammad Ali speaks on Modesty vs Immodesty...

Masaniai Muhammad Ali 
Producer / Composer / Sound Designer / Writer
 
Masaniai is a diverse music producer, musician, songwriter and singer from Watts, California. The talented and beautiful producer has scored music for MTV’s “Adventures in Hollyhood” starring Academy Award-Winning rap group, Three 6 Mafia, written music for Grammy Award-Winning artist, Wyclef Jean, and also commercials for PF Chang's Pei Wei Asian Market. Other credits include work as a background singer for India Arie, co-production credits with Battlecat (Producer for Snoop Dogg, The Game, Xzibit), and co-writing credits with Rich Kidd of Canada (Producer for Drake, J. Cole, Jay Electronica, and Kendrick Lamar).
 
During Sis. Masaniai's interview she was asked to give her views on this weeks most popular topic, "Modesty vs. Immodesty...Who's coming home to meet the parents?"
 
"Unfortunately, society has been so dumbed down to the point where positive and good natured adjectives such as "modest" and "decent" are viewed as corny or just plain and simply lame. We all want to be judges over everyone else around us but ourselves, and beat each other down if we are not in accordance with a standard that none of us has set, so we look for what's "popular". It's not "popular" to be modest or decent. It's not popular to actually want to bring home a man to introduce to your father. In fact, it's the total opposite. It's popular to be ignorant. It's popular to be vulgar and blunt, it's "funny", and we can't forget about how "hard" and "tough" it makes you look. So we go for what's "in", when in truth, none of us truly want a man or a woman that is disrespectful, raunchy, and vulgar.

In every woman's heart, she wants an Idris Elba, but that type of man is not "popular" these days, so she continues to pursue the Lil Waynes, and once again has created yet another relationship that is bound to fail, and the process continues. As women, we must start within self first, and ask ourselves do we want a future with class and quality, or just another yesterday with a trend. I want to feel a sense of pride when I think of my other half, and that can only be accomplished by choosing the best, and only then can I choose the best when I realize what is the best."


Thank you Sis. Masaniai for taking the time to share your words and knowledge with us and allowing me to feature you on my blog! I pray Allah (God) continues to bless you in your endeavors!

Thursday, October 10, 2013

Sydney Allen speaks on Modesty vs. Immodesty...

                                                    Sydney Allen, 21

Sydney Allen currently attends University of Texas (Austin) and is a 4th year Elementary Education major. When she graduates she will then go on to shape the minds of young children. It is important for them to have the proper education that will allow them to excel not only in school but in their every day lives. There are so few good teachers in this world that truly cares about the well being of their students. Sydney Allen will be that one in a million teacher that will help our children be successful.

During Sydney Allen's interview I asked her to shed a little light on the topic this week, "Modesty vs. Immodesty...Who's coming home to meet the parents?"

"I think one of the most important things to state first is that not only is modesty shown through attire but through attitude and personality. I think every woman can appreciate a man who not only dresses to the T but also carries himself in a very humble way. Although the importance of a woman dressing modestly is discussed more, as women I think we need to make our preferences known. I personally consider a man who dresses well very intriguing, simply because it’s somewhat foreign these days. Dressing well can encompass many different styles. Personally, I love cardigans, for myself and for men. Why? It’s just something about man sweaters that yells classy. Something as simple as what we wear can show outwardly what we think of ourselves. Although we like to say we don’t judge people on what they look like, we can’t deny the fact that we weigh heavily on what we see first. Basketball shorts vs slacks, muscle shirt vs button down. It’s all a matter of balance. If the man expects the woman to carry herself modestly then so should he. Birds of a feather flock together or in my case birds with cardigans."

Thank you Sis. Sydney for your words and allowing me to feature you on my blog! I pray Allah (God) continues to bless you in your endeavors!

Monday, October 7, 2013

Modesty vs. Immodesty...Who's coming home to meet the parents?



Last week we heard from the young men but this week we're going to hear from the young women! Who would a woman prefer to introduce to her father? Would it be a respectable, debonair, classy man like Idris Elba? Or would it be someone like Lil Wayne who is disrespectful to women, raunchy and vulgar? Who???

I have to quote Bro. Jerard X again, "only an immodest woman likes an immodest man and vice versa." What you are/think is what you will attract. When you see an indecent man 99.99999% of the time he will be with an immodest woman. A real woman wants a man she can be proud to take home to meet her father. A man that she would be proud to have a son by. When you take a man to meet your parents you would expect him to dress appropriately.

Along with the word woman, man is also used too loosely. Being a man is so much more than just being gender specific. To be a man means that you're striving to uphold your manly duties. But what are these duties? A man strives to protect, provide and love his woman and family, he strives to set an example for young men to teach them to how to be a real man, his strength has the potential to inspire the masses. Although modesty isn't just about the way you dress it is important because that is the first thing people notice about you. Men, if you are trying to apply for a respectable job and you're wearing an extra large shirt and sagging your pants they will turn you away before you can even get to the door, but if you're wearing a nice shirt with business casual pants you would be taken more seriously. Of course, you don't have to wear a suit and tie 24/7 but just pull your pants up and wear a decent casual shirt. That, is modesty. 

Dress your mentality!

Men and women want someone who will match their fly both mentally and physically. It's a package deal. What decent, respectable woman who is striving to uphold her womanly duties wants someone like Lil Wayne!? None! Like I said earlier, it is not only the way you dress that defines modesty it is also your mindset. If you want better be better.

I encourage everyone both men and women to give their opinion on this topic and the previous topics. Just post a comment right below this article! Please keep your comments respectable and refrain from using any profanity. Thank you!

Sunday, October 6, 2013

Marcellus Pennington speaks on Modesty vs Immodesty...

Marcellus Pennington is 20 years old and is from Fort Lauderdale, Florida. He is a processing member of the Nation of Islam and attends Muhammad Mosque Number 82.

Bro. Marcellus was asked to give his views on this weeks topic, "Modesty vs. Immodesty...Who's coming home to meet the parents?"

"The value of modesty can be determined by what the scarceness of it has produced. As The Most Honorable Elijah Muhammad teaches us, where there are no good women there will never be any good men. Why? Because women are the moral standards of society. Some people tend to think that modesty is simply covering up your adornments, but it’s much deeper than that. Modesty, like Islam is a way of life. It’s in your mannerism, your demeanor, your words and even how you present those words. With that being said we know that all good things have their polar opposites! Immodesty is currently the order of the day. Sisters nowadays walk around not just half nude, but nude in some cases! Anytime you’re not wearing under garments you’re technically nude even if you have on a gown or a thin piece of clothing. There’s no shame in our sister’s game nowadays. How can any man think righteously when you have women parading around like that? A brother can act as godly as he wants to, but let any woman, especially a good looking black woman, walk past him letting it all hang out and his gaze is as good as stolen. It has gotten to a point now that being that that’s all that brother’s see they think that's all there is. They think that is acceptable even though deep down they know it isn’t. I would more than likely be the same way were it not for the teachings of The Most Honorable Elijah Muhammad. I am now of the mindset that anything other than modesty is unacceptable. I wouldn’t dream of presenting any woman to my mother that did not have any self-respect. Because if you don’t respect yourself others don’t stand a chance."

Thank you Bro. Marcellus for your words and allowing me to feature you on my blog! I pray Allah (God) continues to bless you in your endeavors!

Friday, October 4, 2013

Kevin Raney speaks on Modesty vs. Immodesty...


Kevin Raney, also known as DJ K-Rain, is a professionally certified disc jockey with a track record of working with successful artists such as BabyBoyDaPrince, AyyeJayye and Junior Ju (MGM) and Steven Ross (RBK) from sweet 16's. He also does weddings, upscale events and organizational benefits. He has hosted six successful mixtapes and is a live mixer for KCOH 1440 AM based in Houston, Texas. The multi-talented DJ K-Rain continues to collaborate with well known producers and promoters in the music and entertainment industry.

During Kevin Raney's interview he was asked to talk about this weeks topic, "Modesty vs. Immodesty...Who's coming home to meet the parents?"

"My answer is simple, either way I appreciate a woman that possesses a beautiful spirit and a zest for life. I am the type of man who knows not to judge a woman solely on her looks. It’s what’s on the inside that really counts. Therefore, you can’t always judge a book by its cover.

My view of a modest woman is a young lady who can look and play the part. She’s mature, confident within herself and knows exactly what to do and how to do it. Whether it’s dressing up for church, meeting the parents or going to the park. She’s always fashionable, appropriate and understands that first impressions are lasting."

Thank you Bro. Kevin for your words and allowing me to feature you on my blog! I pray Allah (God) continues to bless you in your endeavors!

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Jerard X speaks on why men should be modest too...

Jerard X, 28

Jerard X is a poet, artist, writer and an aspiring teacher, mathematician and scientist. Bro. Jerard obtained his Bachelor's degree in Communications from the College of Charleston and is also the former Owner and Vice President of KIPP AV (audio and video). Most importantly, Bro. Jerard is always striving to be a man of God.

During Bro. Jerard's interview I asked him what was his perspective on the topic, "shouldn't men be modest too?"

"In the name of The Beneficent and Merciful God, I’d like to greet those who are reading this with peace. I pray you are in the best of health and spirit and that God humbles your heart to receive what he put in me to share in regard to men and where we stand in reference to modesty.

Modesty is a mode of dress and deportment (behavior and manners) intended not to encourage sexual attraction in others.

Should Men Also Be Modest???

Let’s look at this from a spiritual dynamic. We have to put the Creator of life, the heavens and the earth in every equation and if you do not believe in the Creator (God), then AT LEAST focus on His creation for now. You can tell how valuable something is, by how well dressed and covered it is. Let’s prove it. God dressed His Universe with stars and planets; the Earth with vegetation and trees; His head with a crown; and He dresses ALL of His men and women from top to bottom in modest attire. We, being the creation of the Creator, reflect him by covering up our valuables. We put precious metals in a safe, money in a wallet and water in a bottle. It is not the safe, wallet nor bottle that has the value, but it is that which these items protect that has the value. How valuable are you? How well are you dressed and covered?

Why dress everything of value? What’s the point of having these things if I can’t show them off? Look at the results of leaving your valuables out in the open or naked. Be a stubborn scientist and experiment by leaving your money out of your wallet, don’t lock up your jewelry or metals and pour your bottle water onto the ground and drink. The same goes for your body. You can’t get a job, open a bank account, run for office, and eat in fine restaurants if you are not dressed properly. Your value naturally decreases in the public eye no matter how much knowledge you have in your head.

Well what about behavior? God’s men and women were and are modest in their behavior, manners, speech, dance, song, etc. Could you see God’s man (Jesus) of yesterday and today doing these modern dances, wearing skinny jeans and muscle shirts, making silly passes at women, “making it rain” (with money), blasting music, singing dirty songs, etc.? Do the same with the Mother of Jesus. If you can’t see God’s man and woman doing it, then don’t do it.

WHY? Why are they so modest? The fact is they dress their mind with knowledge, wisdom and understanding. If we do the same, we will realize that we don’t want people looking at us sexually because our minds are dressed in God’s wisdom and we have something greater to offer; something on the highest plane. The more we dress our mind the more we’ll dress our body.

Women you can help. Only an immodest woman likes an immodest man and vice versa. If immodesty is what you want, that’s fine; but be prepared for the headache that comes with it in your relationship. Any relationSHIP that is not founded on God’s principles and morals is a holey (not holy) ship that is destined to sink. If you are a modest woman then an immodest man will be repulsive to you.

Brothers our women will reflect us. She will reflect not only our dress, but also our behavior. Stop liking and commenting on naked and half naked pictures of our women on these social networks. If you don’t want to reflect God in thought, action and in dress then it would be wise to leave God’s women alone and go after the heathens aka ratchets aka bottom feeders aka the worst part of the planet earth (they will age you). On the contrary, God’s women are nothing to play with. Let’s kill our foul language, immodest dance and song, tight jeans and suits, etc. Let us reflect our Creator and His Man (Christ) so we can be worthy of a beautiful woman who values and covers herself for her own benefit and for her man (you brother). You black, brown, yellow and red men are naturally of men of God. Accept your own and be yourself.

I have to thank God for putting His spirit in The Honorable Elijah Muhammad and The Honorable Minister Louis Farrakhan because it is these three Men that inspired me and gave me the little, but so much that is shared in this article."

Thank you Bro. Jerard for sharing your knowledge with us on this crucial topic. Your words were on point and very powerful! Also, thank you for allowing me to feature you on my blog! I pray Allah (God) continues to bless you in your endeavors!